C/O 17 Hamilton Road
Kings Langley
Watford
Herts
WD4 8PY
United Kingdom

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Dominic F's Parents/Guardians

Kaye and step-dad Jamie.

Dominic F's Siblings

Vanessa 17/05/1997 likes High School Musical, gadgets, smellies, make-up, music, Nintendo DS, Justin Bieber, girlie magazines, edible treats, Emily 20/02/2001 likes gadgets, watching films, music, crafty items, edible goodies, girly things, High School Musical. Ben 28/12/2007 likes cars, trains, Disney things, Cbeebies programs like In the Night Garden and Waybuloo, books and puzzles.

Dominic F's Interests

Watching DVDs, videos, reading, music, being out in his sensory garden, cause and effect toys, visual things.

Dominic F's Favourite Colour

Bright vivid colours

Is Dominic F able to read?

No

Is Dominic F able to use hands?

Yes

Is Dominic F visually/hearing impaired?

No

Does Dominic F suffer from any developmental delay?

Yes

Favourite type of post?

Post with pictures on and things he can look at is preferred as Dominic has limited mobility and severe learning difficulties

Story written 2008

Dominic was diagnosed with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy (DMD) when he was 3 years old. His Mum began to suspect something was wrong as Dominic couldn't jump or go up and down stairs. DMD is a condition which causes the muscles to die and is life limiting. Sufferers, always boys, go off their feet and into a wheelchair at around 9 years old, although they normally need a wheelchair before 9 years old for occasional use, especially if walking any distance.

Dominic was such an active baby, toddler and boy, and his Mum thought he would react badly to having to go in a wheelchair, but he accepted it well. Due to his severe learning difficulties, Dominic does get frustrated as he can't do things for himself and yet can't always communicate what he wants.

Dominic is, on the whole, a happy boy although he can be a bit 'Kevin the teen' on occasions since he hit 13 last year. He loves his books, DVD's and CD's and has most of the Disney films. He likes things that are more for under 8's and he can use easily as his arms muscles are weak now and he can't lift things any more. He likes going for day trips out too. He doesn't like too much noise or people around him.

Dominic is very affectionate and loves cuddles with his Mum, even at 14 years old. He has a huge fan base and people fall in love with him easily whether it’s family, friends or professional people who see him. He occasionally goes to Keech Cottage, a children’s hospice in Luton and loves it there.

Dominic is a very special, much loved boy.

Update 30th June 2010

Thanks this month to our faithful Sarah G and Kim L who NEVER forget Dom and his siblings. Thanks also to Nicola (West Midlands) and Christine (Florida). Thanks so much for the Power Rangers pack. I couldn't find a name on it. Dom has been playing with it. Thanks also to the Nitrol team for the goodie bag.

I am so sorry for missing the party on Saturday. It looks like the sun shone for you all and the balloon release looked breathtaking and was a fitting tribute to the beautiful Angels who have lost their fight against illnesses over the years. I just don't think Dom would have coped very well with it. He's not good with crowds due to his Autistic tendencies.

Update 7th June 2010

Just a quick update as I've had Dom’s Echo Cardiograms results. His heart hasn’t got any worse since the last Echo in Jan 2009 and has, in fact, improved probably due to the Perindopril he's been taking since last year, so that is great news. This isn’t 100% official yet as the Consultant needs to go over the readings etc but they hardly ever find anything different apparently. This does mean that his heart is OK to have the spinal operation and after another chat tonight with the Neuromuscular Nurse at GOSH, I think that they would like to do it sooner rather than later. In the long run it's much better for him. We just need him to have this sleep study and get the results from that.

Update 4th June 2010

Dominic had his annual review at school last week which was very interesting. He stays at his school until he's 19 but we have to start thinking about where he would go afterwards. He's growing up so quickly.

Dominic had a very busy, stress filled day at GOSH yesterday. He had a Scoliosis appointment, a spinal x-ray and an Echo Cardiogram. In total we waited for 5 hours. Dom’s Echo appointment was supposed to be at 12.30pm and we got in a 3.15pm. The poor lad was so patient too despite being really hungry. In the end I had to feed him in the waiting room. It was all so much easier when the Neuromuscular Clinic was at Hammersmith Hospital. Due to Dom’s learning difficulties he doesn't understand that we are at hospital to try and help him, so obviously when he is messed about he gets very scared and retaliates at times. When he's waiting for a long time he gets more and more tense.

Anyway, I digress. I don't know his Echo results yet but hope to have those through in the next day or so. Last time his heart had deteriorated slightly but I'm hoping there's not been much change since then.

His Spinal x-ray showed that despite the body brace his Scoliosis had got worse. It was very clear to see when they put his last 2 x-rays together. Normally they would operate on his spine without question but because of Dominic’s Learning Difficulties I have to make the decision on whether or not he should have it done. If he doesn't he will be in pain when it bends even more which they expect it will do as it has despite wearing the brace. The surgery depends on what results come back from the Echo and also the results from his baseline lung/heart sleep study, which has come through at the Brompton Hospital in September, as if the heart and/or lungs are affected too much they may not risk the anesthetic, as it can be risky anyway for boys with DMD. So we have an appointment coming for Oct/Nov (after the results are in for both) to have another x-ray and see the Neuromuscular consultants to discuss and decide what to do from there. It will certainly be a busy latter part of 2010 by the looks of it.

Despite changing to Adult care after August (when Dominic’s 16) they will be operating at GOSH, which is good at least. It concerns me greatly that Dominic will have to be with adults after August whenever he needs medical care as mentally he is younger than a lot of kids half his age. He needs the DVDs, toys, books and so on that you get on a Children’s ward. It is also so unfair because he has Autistic tendencies so doesn't react well to any change at all. Fun times ahead I think.

We’re thinking of all Dom’s fellow Post Pals who are having a hard time at the moment.

Thanks to Debbie from Shrewsbury, Despina, Penny, Jenny Flack and old faithfuls Kim (Ginger that was) and Sarah G. Thanks to Stephanie and family, Guy Townsend AKA 'Naughty Schoolboy', Matt B (who sent a fantastic drawing!), Blake H, Marjolijn and family, Jonathon and another Dominic. I hope to reply to some of the letters etc on behalf of Dominic but if I don't get chance to I would like you to know how grateful we all are to everyone of you sends a card, letter, gift or email.

Update 5th May 2010

I would like to make sure that everyone who sends a few lines, card, gift… anything to Dominic and/or his siblings... knows that it is gratefully appreciated. I would love to personally write and thank everyone but I just don't have the time but that doesn't mean I am complacent.

Dominic received a beautiful quilt from Love Quilts who make up cross stitched quilts for a lot of poorly children from all over including Post Pals. It is just gorgeous and totally personal to him. We chose Disney Characters as the theme and I attempted my first cross stitch square and did Captain Hook for it. I'm quite impressed with it for a first attempt. Dominic just loves it. Thanks to everyone at Lovequilts and all the stitchers... especially Kat who put it together. I am now a Lovequilt stitcher and have done 2 other squares for other quilts. I'm on my 4th square. It felt only right after doing one for Dom that I should do some for other kids.

Dom has had a quiet few months medically. He has a big appointment at the beginning of June when he will have an echo and a spinal x-ray. I have also had an assessment appointment through for the Brompton Hospital which is next week. This is because he will be going in to have a sleep study soon to test his lung function. Boys with Duchenne need nighttime ventilation at some point and this is to see where we are at as regards to Dom’s lung function. At present he just takes Perindopril nightly to slow his heart down and take some pressure off it. It will be a busy month for Dominic.

I would like to express my families deepest sympathies to Holly’s, Jamie’s, Madison’s, Sophie’s and Kian’s families. Such a sad time with so many special angels passing away the last few months. I've just found out that Rhianna passed away today too. Sweet dreams beautiful girl and condolences to her family. It's just heartbreaking.

Thanks for all the cards received over and around Easter. As always the constant and caring Sarah G and Kate D sent a few as did Kim (can't get used to your name change! :)). We ALL love the Tiger card. It is just brilliant! Thanks also to Marjolyn, Libby, Margret, Garry and Julie. After Post Pals was on Russell Howard’s Good News, Dominic has received a fair few Emails. I have replied to some on behalf of Dominic. Forgive me for not replying personally to all of them. Dominic has severe learning difficulties and so cannot reply personally but we are very grateful for all emails received and the fact you've taken time out to send them means a lot to us. It was also great to see Viks get praise that she truly deserves on Russell Howard’s Good News. Well done to a special lady. I would like to thank Chezz for her fantastic letter and drawing of Mickey Mouse. Dom loved the drawing and the girls thought your letter was lovely. I would like to thank Becki for my Mother’s Day package. The DVD has been played and sung along to. Thanks so much. Ben would like to thank Leo for his photo and bits and pieces. Leo looks as cheeky and cute as Ben! ;) Thanks also to Karen for Ben’s book.

Update 10th March 2010

Apologies for the lack of an update last month. It was a pretty quiet one.

In February Dom had an appointment at GOSH with Professor Muntoni. It went pretty well. Dominic’s upper body movement remains good for his condition. It could be a lot worse. They feel that Dom needs a more intense sleep study at the Brompton as I mentioned that he isn’t eating breakfast so much and was stroppy tired first thing in a morning. This could be a sign that his breathing has deteriorated further. This will happen in the latter part of the year I think.

Due to Dominic turning 16 this year, it was discussed about Dominic having to move to another clinic, as GOSH is a children’s hospital. So, we will probably go to the Neuromuscular hospital behind, as that's where Dominic’s used to going. He doesn't adapt to change very easily because of his autistic tendencies.

They couldn't fit in an Echocardiogram so he has been booked for one of those on his next appointment at GOSH (which is 2nd June) at the scoliosis clinic when he will also have another spinal X-ray.

Dom has also had an appointment at the Wheelchair services where, at long last, we have got his seating right. We've had huge problems with his legs splaying and so his ankles have started turning in. We now have arms that come off his foot plates and push his knees in. His posture is much better now and should hopefully help avoid his feet hurting because of turning in.

Dominic’s older sister has now started a new school and appears to have been accepted and is a lot happier. Hope it stays that way.

I would like to thank everyone who has taken the time to drop a card, letter or gift to Dominic and/or his siblings. I cannot tell you how much we appreciate it. Thank you for Emily’s birthday cards too. We are grateful to everyone but would like to mention Marjolijn who sent some lovely Valentines gifts to all the kids. They loved their nik naks. Also, thank you so much to Hannah who goes to Birmingham University for the books she sent with a lovely little note. Thanks also to Kelly Han. I would also like to mention Sarah G who regularly sends Dominic and his siblings cards and photos and bits and pieces. She is a lovely lady. A recent picturesque photo received of the canal outside her house has made me green with envy though.

I would like to send my thoughts, prayers and love to both Sophie’s and Madison’s families... and the precious girls themselves. I hope they are comfortable and pain free... It is the least they deserve. Whatever your beliefs, it makes you question them sometimes.

Update 18th January 2010

Once again, I just want to thank all the wonderful people who sent cards, gifts, letters, e mails and wrote messages on here for Dominic over Christmas... and, in fact, all year round. Also, huge thanks for all Dominic’s siblings gifts and cards. You have no idea what a difference you make to all their lives. Having a very poorly brother/sister is really hard on the siblings and they deal with a lot more than their peers.

We are thinking of other Pals i.e. Jon Paul and the featured Pals this month, who appear to be having a pretty tough time at the moment.

Update 3rd January 2010

Sorry for the lack of an update last month. I've had such a busy few months with one thing or another. Dominic’s sister has been home since the end of November due to bullying and I'm trying to get her in to a new school. We also had Dom’s Disneyland Paris 'dream' at the beginning of December kindly organized by The Dream Factory. It was very beautifully set out, exciting but stressful, and we had an awful situation occur while trying to meet Santa but were rewarded with a special Meet and Greet with Mickey Mouse and Friends where they interacted with Dominic, his siblings, cousins and the rest of us privately for 15 minutes. It was amazing. I had a mad rush to get organized for Christmas once coming home though which is why I never had time to update.

Dominic loves the build up to Christmas but once it arrives he gets very angry and has temper tantrums as it's out of his routine. This is due to his autistic tendencies (due to having Severe Learning Difficulties) but it's very hard to deal with.

He loved all his presents though and everything that was sent was appreciated. My other children are really pleased with all their gifts from the elves and other Post Pals Supporters and have asked me to say a huge 'Thank you' to everyone. You are all amazing. All the messages and letters are much appreciated and I'm so sorry that Dominic can't reply to them personally.

Including all the cards from the reindeers and elves for Dominic and his siblings we received a lot of cards and I would like to thank everyone for taking the time out of a stressful Christmas to put a smile on my kids’ faces. The reindeer cards were so well thought out and interesting and enjoyed by everyone. It's overwhelming. I'd like to not only thank people for any letters received but also for the emails Dominic has received too. In all, Dominic and his siblings received over 20 presents... I'm not sure how many but there was a Post Pals sack from Father Christmas with presents for all of them in to open Christmas Day. Emily did very well out of it. Thank you so much everyone. I have a few 'doubled up' presents my kids received from friends that will be winging their way to other Post Pals.

For some reason we have started getting really bad shocks off Dominic from the wheelchair so I need to look into this. We have a wheelchair seating assessment this week and also a GOSH appointment coming up in February. Dominic appears to have a tender area at the base of his spine. He is seated in a Jay Cushion, which is gel filled and therefore not hard, so I don't know why this is and I will mention that at both appointments.

In the meantime I would like to wish everyone a Happy New Year and let all the Pals who are having a real tough time at the moment know we are thinking about them.

Update 9th November 2009

Dominic's October was pretty busy. We collected his Body Brace, which was pretty painless, and it fits him much better than the other one did. It fits him too well actually, as it now restricts his upper body movement, and so he is finding it hard to eat as he can't bend down to his food. His upper arm muscles have also deteriorated and he can't lift his hand to his mouth, so I need to get something sorted for that and have left a message asking his OT to get in touch. At present I'm putting books under his elbow so it lifts his arm higher.

Dominic had a visit at the Community Dental Clinic and it seems doubtful that he will have his front tooth mended where he broke it in temper on holiday. The local hospital won't sedate a child with DMD. The only options would be to have it done at GOSH or leave it. At present we are leaving it as it isn’t really bothering him (although it did at first) and it is one less thing for him to have to go through.

Dominic started on the Perindopril for his heart 2 weeks ago and so far there doesn't seem to be any side effects, thankfully. This reduces Dominic’s blood pressure and therefore reduces the hearts work, as according to his last Echocardiogram, Dominic’s hearts muscles have started to become affected by his condition.

Dominic broke his wheelchair in temper last week. His temper since hitting 15 in August is unbelievable. Too many hormones now! He steered it into a wall at school and broke the footplate off. Anyway, Whizz Kids sent their repair company out and mended it on Friday so it's brilliant again now.

Thanks to everyone involved with Post Pals… especially Viks (who I never knew much about until finding her and Post Pals on Facebook) as she really is a selfless and amazing lady.

Huge thanks for all post this month. A special mention for Kim Ginger who sends things for Dominic and his siblings regularly. All post is very much appreciated. I would like to thank Sara Gilligan for her lovely letter last month after she saw I was having a bit of a hard time. It was very kind of her to think of me and I was touched.

Update 6th October 2009

Dominic went to GOSH a few weeks ago to be cast for his new body brace. To say it was a drama is an understatement, and if I'd known, I would have gone into training. They have NO hoisting equipment in the Orthotics department which caters for hundreds of children in wheelchairs, so we had to lift Dominic onto a bed and then back again… and then on the bed and back again. He is 15 years old and weighs over 9 stone and is a dead weight. The whole experience was challenging. Also, due to his SLD, he hates hospitals as he doesn't really understand that we go to help him and he doesn't comply easily. We got him cast eventually but I was totally worn out and had a job to drive home and Dom was very fraught!

Anyway, I've got to take him back on 14th October so he can have a fitting.

Dominic’s behaviour has been a lot more challenging of late .He seems to get angry and frustrated more and it's quite hard to deal with at times. I try hard to be understanding etc but I'm not a robot and sometimes it's hard not to let it get to me. I enjoy his odd nights respite much more than I used to and it makes me feel guilty for even saying that.

Thank you, as always, to everyone who has taken time out to send a card or letter to Dominic and my other children. You are all amazing and very thoughtful. God bless you all.

Love and hugs to all the very poorly Post Pals. Thinking of you all and your families.

Update 1st September 2009

I apologise for the delay in updating Dominic’s page. The month before school broke up was a tough one due to my eldest daughter being bullied at school, and then as all you parents will know, the holidays are busy and I have been totally distracted.

We had a family holiday in Weymouth at the beginning of August. The weather was dire but the company was good. The one downside being that Dominic re broke his front tooth throwing his head forwards in temper, so I have got to try and get that sorted as it is irritating him. He has an appointment at the dentist next week.

Dominic turned 15 last week too. We took him on Leighton Buzzard steam railway, which he enjoyed despite the wasp invasion, and then we had a family party at home. I always find Dominic’s birthday very bittersweet and quite hard. I don't want him to get older with the nature of his condition.

To add to the stress, we ended up in A&E as the baby, Ben, fell off a chair and cracked his head open on the path. He's fine now though after they glued it.

Health wise Dominic is OK. He has an appointment at GOSH tomorrow at the scoliosis clinic. I think he will probably need to be cast for a new brace as this one doesn't seem to fit him very snugly. Hopefully this one has stopped his spine curving any further though. He also has someone going into the school next week from Wheelchair Services to view his seating. I still don't think he is seated as well as he could be.

We would like to send Madison and her family our deepest love and strengthening thoughts through this very tough time. We are following her updates closely and we would do anything to change things for her if we could. Life is very cruel at times.

As always we are grateful for all post received. The kids all get a huge kick out of the fact that strangers are taking the trouble to write to them and send them bits and pieces. Thanks to an American school for all the postcards received. It was lovely of you all to take time out and write to someone overseas. Aurora (beautiful name)... Dominic would love to write to you but he can't write. However, he has a 12 year old sister who I'm sure would love to write to you, especially as she has been looking for a penpal from overseas. If you could email me your address that would be great as I can't find it.

Thank you everyone for all the lovely cards, as always. Particularly for Dom’s birthday cards. Thanks to the lovely person in Japan who sent 'lollipop' facecloths to all my children, Ben included. Thanks too for all the stickers received recently.

Update 3rd June 2009

Thankfully Dominic has had a quiet month this month… especially after last month. There has been no changes in his condition and no appointments. At his last appointment at GOSH they told me his last echocardiogram in January showed there was a decrease in his heart functioning, so Dominic will be starting Perindopril soon to reduce pressure in his blood vessels, so his heart doesn't have to work so hard to pump blood round his body.

I have had a major disappointment after thinking I had, at last, found a carer who could take Dominic out in an adapted vehicle once a month. A community nursing service offered a carer for Dominic in September last year and after setting up direct payments and repeatedly trying to get hold of them, I have just received a letter saying they can't do it now. So Dominic is back to never going out without his family, which he needs to as he is a 14 year old lad. We have had one bad experience after another with carers. I feel so sorry for him as his quality of life is affected and quality of life is so important as his condition is life limitting. Why is everything such a fight?

Thanks this month to Kim for another gadget type card she sent for Dom, he loves it.

I would like to say how sorry I am to hear about Jack B. I had been following his progress. Deepest Sympathy to his Mum, Dad, brother and sister. We’re thinking of them all.

Update 12th May 2009

Dominic has had a busy month this month with appointments etc. He had his main 6 monthly GOSH M.O.T. I received the results from the recent sleep study I did at home and also from his last Echocardiogram in February.

On the downside, his heart has deteriorated a bit. This means he will be taking medication to slow his heart rate down to take the stress off it a bit. There are a few side affects with this medication i.e. dizziness, but he will be taking it at night so it shouldn't affect him too much, as he will be asleep shortly after he's taken it. He will have another Echocardiogram later in the year.

The positive news is that the sleep study showed his breathing is very good, with only one dip in 10 hours, which the Doctor told me anyone could have, so that's great news. The sleep study will be repeated again in January I think. It's so hard sometimes to take in all the information given on the day, but I will get a report home re that appointment soon and if I've missed anything out I will update again.

Another bonus was that I took Dom to the Orthotics clinic while we were there and got his body brace adjusted under his arms, so it is much more comfortable now. They said that it wasn't a perfect fit as GOSH had cut the hole at the front out too big, so he will need another one very soon and will need to be cast again… which he HATED last time.

Dominic also had an appointment at the wheelchair clinic who have agreed to give us a cushion for his powered chair, as well as keeping the one for his manual chair (which he hasn’t used since getting the powered chair!). He has been measured accurately for it and we are waiting for it to be delivered now. It will make a huge difference to his posture, which is so important as his feet are turning in which is painful for him and correct seating keeps his knees together and therefore his feet flat.

Dominic and I went to Locktons in London at the beginning of April so that Whizz Kids could thank the Company and its employees for raising the money to provide Dominic and, I think, four other children with wheelchairs, which makes a huge difference to their quality of life. In Dominic’s case it is so important as his condition is degenerative. The employees at Locktons were very welcoming and very pleased to see Dominic and another little boy who was there in their wheelchairs and see firsthand the difference that their generosity has made to their lives. I mentioned to a few of them that Dominic was on Post Pals and what Post Pals was about and so if any of them are reading this I would like to thank them, and Whizzkids, from the bottom of my heart for giving Dominic his independence back and giving him a better quality of life. I would also like to apologize for Dominic’s 'near misses' as he careered around the room in the chair, narrowly missing taking a few of the staff down.

As always, a 'Huge Thanks' to everyone who takes the time to buy/make and send things to brighten not only Dominic’s but his siblings lives too. Thanks to Post Pals for making it happen. They all get so excited opening things and although Dominic doesn't really understand what Post Pals is, the girls do and they are so amazed and grateful that people they have never met are sending them gifts and cards. Dominic’s condition is hard on them too at times as they worship their elder brother… as do I! Thanks to everyone for the lovely cards. Although this month we are very disappointed with some dishonest Post Office Workers who have slit open the edge of some of the thicker cards obviously hoping to find money. Dominic had another great cat letter from Tracey which was very much appreciated and thank you so much Sarah G for all the books which are all being put to good use, it’s so kind of you.

Update 31st March 2009

We have a busy month coming up with Dominic having a Whizz Kids presentation in London next week and another appointment at GOSH. STILL no sleep study and I'm STILL trying to get his body brace trimmed. Nothing is ever straightforward.

Special thanks this month to Sarah for my Mothers day card and poem. Only Dominic had made me a card at school as everyone else forgot… so that was very well received. I made sure they made up for it though! Dom had a great Easter sticker card from Kim. We can't promise that he won't be eating a lot of chocolate, Kim! Thanks for Tracey’s letter to Dominic with the pictures of cats on. It is soooo screwed up where he has looked at it over and over. He likes letters if they have plenty of pictures on.

Update 4th March 2009

It's been a pretty quiet month this month with hospital appointments etc. I am STILL chasing up his sleep study. Why this is proving to be such a drama I really don't know but GOSH will not be happy. It is so important that his breathing is checked regularly at this age with his condition.

Dom is still wearing the body brace everyday although it is rubbing him under the arms now so it will need trimming… something else I need to chase up.

Dom has also been to the Dentist this month and his teeth are OK other than he has one that is behind the others as there is no room for it to come through. Under normal circumstances they would remove it but Dominic wouldn't tolerate having it taken out and, with his condition, General Anaesthetic is avoided unless absolutely necessary, so it is being left as it doesn't seem to be causing him problems.

I hope the snow didn't cause everyone else as much disruption as it did us.

Special thanks this month go to the people who sent Emily birthday cards. She was really impressed that she got cards from people who saw it was her birthday on here and particularly loved the one from Maria that had an 'E' cross stitched on the front with a ballerina (she loves ballet!). All her cards have been taken down but kept.

Supportive thoughts and best wishes to all the other Pals and families.

Update 5th February 2009

Dominic went to GOSH this month to the Neurology Scoliosis Clinic. He had two x-rays on his spine, one wearing his brace and one without, and it showed that the brace is improving his posture no end. His spine curvature has worsened since July partly because he's only been wearing the brace a few months, and despite hoping that the brace will avoid the need for Dominic to have spinal surgery in the future, I was told that he probably would need to have surgery at some point. However, after speaking to the Neurological Nurse last week it may be something that I may have to opt out of for Dominic. Due to his Severe Learning Difficulties he wouldn't tolerate the aftercare well or have any understanding of what was being done to him or why. Also, due to the fact that he has a life limiting condition, I want him to have a good quality of life rather than be in pain or discomfort. Hopefully I won't have to make any decisions regarding this for a while yet.

He also had another Echocardiogram which showed that his heart was possibly a bit more affected than last time. However, at present I don't have the exact results, as his last Echo was at Hammersmith and now the Duchenne Clinic is at GOSH and the last I heard they hadn’t compared the two.

Dominic has gone off having breakfast recently which I also mentioned to the Nurse and she said it can be a sign that his breathing is dipping more during the night. He needs a sleep study to determine this but I have spent the last year chasing this up as he was supposed to have one January 2008. As always these things become a battle. If it shows a marked difference in his breathing at night he will need further studies done. At some point he will have to have ventilation at night but I really hope that won't be for a while and I'm not sure how he will tolerate that either.

On a high note, we picked up Dom’s new Indoor/Outdoor powered wheelchair kindly donated by Whizzkids and it is great. I wouldn't mind one. I'm having trouble at the moment sorting out the transport clips as they are too small so he's only been in it once, but hopefully by Monday he should be set to go.

Thank you for the cards and gifts this month, especially knowing what a hard month January is for a lot of people. Huge thanks for the lady who sent chocolate candles and an aromatherapy bath bomb for Dom, but every card and gift is appreciated immensely. Also, thank you to Post Pals for my little box of truffles. I would love to say that I was dieting after Christmas and had saved them, but they lasted about half an hour.

Update 7th January 2009

Dominic has a GOSH appointment this month and collects his new powered wheelchair.

As recently updated, I am overwhelmed by people’s generosity and goodwill and would like to say thank you.

One of my youngest daughter’s gifts was food for the reindeer from Santa so they would stop here. On Christmas Eve i went outside with her and we sprinkled it. She also got cards from the reindeer which she loved. Dominic got a few Christmas tree decorations and as he has his own little tree in his room as well as our main tree, we put them on that one. We also got an elf hamper full of presents.

Update 2nd January 2009

I’d like to say thank you so much for all Dominic’s cards and presents last month. I was in tears opening them with him when i saw that people had sent such nice gifts to someone they have never met before, including the things sent for the girls and Ben too. I am so touched and totally humbled.

Thanks to all of you marvellous people at Post Pals and all the wonderful, huge hearted people who read Post Pals and send things too.

Thank you and Happy New Year.

Update 2nd December 2008

Dominic now has his body brace which he has just started wearing over the last few days to try to prevent his spine from curving any further. He isn’t very keen on wearing it at all and I can't say I'm surprised. It is very hard and rigid and restricts his upper body movement. He has to wear it at least 8 hours a day everyday. He also wears leg splints at school so I feel very sorry for him.

Dominic had a bug a few weeks ago which made him very lethargic and he wouldn't eat as he was sick a lot. He seems to get a lot of the bugs that go around.

I put his Christmas decorations up in his bedroom last week as he adores Christmas, especially the run up to it, so he was very excited about that and watched 'The Grinch' about 10 times in a row.

Dominic is due his next GOSH appointment in January/February and at that time will need an echo to check his heart is still OK as that can become a problem as kids with DMD go into their teens, so we are hoping that it goes well.

Thank you for the cards and letters this month and also for the Disney 3D Viewers and the gifts for Dominic and my daughters, Vanessa and Emily. They were both very excited and grateful and wanted to say thank you.

Dominic and family would like to wish everyone at Post Pals, all the children who are part of Post Pals, their families, and all the lovely people who take the time to send a smile, a very HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR!

Update 8th November 2008

Dominic now has his powered indoor wheelchair which has given him back some independence which is great. It will be even better when he gets an indoor/outdoor powered wheelchair from Whizzkids so he can stay in it permanently, but this one is great for the time being. He now has his leg splints too and wears them at school as he won't tolerate wearing them at home. We went to GOSH this week to have a fitting for his body brace but it needed sending back to be adjusted. He recently had a few nights stay at Keech Cottage which he loved too.

We received cards and postcards from all over the world including America and Japan. Dominic loved looking at the pictures. We are very grateful and touched by people who have never met Dominic taking the time to send him something. Dom’s face when he has cards to open and look at is heart warming. The letters and E mails were lovely too. Me, my partner, and daughters, loved reading them and we read them to Dominic, but unless it's short and basic he doesn't understand. Thanks to everyone who has written to Dominic and I'm sorry that he can't reply. Dom has had some lovely little toys from a few people - a bandana, torch keyrings, and Dominic and his sisters also received a little parcel of goodies from a lovely lady for which we are very grateful. Thanks to Kelly Davison for sending a beautiful Glo light elephant mobile which Dom loves.

We are very touched by people’s kindness in taking the time out to drop a line to Dominic and/or send a little gift. Post Pals is a fantastic idea.

Update 16th October 2008

Dominic has been very pleased to get back to school and see all his friends again.

He swims three times a week at school as it is very beneficial to keep his muscles loose and flexible. He seems to like spending most of the time in water with his head underneath the water which worries his teachers and assistants.

He went to be measured up for a powered wheelchair last week which will be funded by Whizz Kids as it is the price of a new car to buy. He had a test drive and kangaroo hopped a fair amount. He can easily use the controls but panics if it moves too fast.

He also went to GOSH two weeks ago to be cast for a body brace as his spine has started to curve and the Specialist wants to hopefully rectify it with the brace or at least stop it getting worse.

On behalf of Dominic, I would like to thank Tamaki, Linda B and Helen for the cards and Julie for the card and Bandana. It is so nice of you to take the time to buy/make, write and send things to my precious lad.